Friday, 14 October 2005

Thoughts . Male and Female.

I'm not religious and dislike dogma in all its forms.

Someone said to me recently :


"I am not a man hater but it seems to me that the majority of "evil" on earth has been orchestrated by the male species! Earth is no longer harmonious in relation to human females and males influence upon the way the planet and it's inhabitants are being cared for.I hope that in time people will learn to be less angry and become moretolerant and loving towards earth and their fellow humans, otherwise thisplanet has very little time left! "

I share her concerns for the planet earth . Men ? - We live in a Patriarchal society. It is simply so . Where ever you look you see men in suits in important influential positions. The majority of our leaders are men.

The male archetype- they tend to be WILL / emperor / provider/ look at me how good I am /aggressive/ ego / action/fight etc .

The feminine archetype is LOVE / Goddess/ passive/ holding / nurturing / creative / intuitive / mothering ..

Just look at how the penis and the womb function !

Still, things are as they are , and WE are all responsible, Men and Women alike.


It is also true that behind every man there is a woman.Women influence. Women " know ", women can be illogical lol and that scares some men.

I think that basically most men fear women. Women fear men or blame or project their own inadequacies on them. Men are babies. That is why some of them have to scream and shout and bully.. but inside they are real softies , caring lovable and just wanting to please and pleasure.

The men who are in touch with their feminine side , and embody a balance of male and female , Yin and Yang, in my opnion are ADORABLE !!!

( I'm thinking of Paulo Coelho , Richard Gere, Antonio Banderas, Johnny Depp, Robin Williams, Dalai Lama. in an enlightened non- sexual way ....and a certain British Indian guy who shall be nameless ) I tell you it is a joy !

WE are the change we wish to see in the world ( Paraphrasing Ghandi )

Also , there is a LOT of power in the NOW .


Every conscious choice we make affects the whole. We are, each of us contributing in our own way with our thoughts and actions - all of which have consequences. I wish for everyone to have positive thoughts that lead to positive actions.

NOW is the time to learn to be less angry and become more tolerant, loving and compassionate towards earth and other human beings.

" HOW " to do this ? That is the next question. We are already doing .... what do need to MORE of ? What do we need to do LESS of ? Any ideas ?

2 comments:

Rami said...

After reading the Da Vinci Code, which I found quite silly, I started thinking, why do people always have the idea that there's a god in the form of he. Why not a goddess?

If all creation comes in male/female, ying and yang, and if even every cell in our bodies has male and female chormosoms, why shouldn't there be two gods, the god and the goddess?

Maybe there is, inside each one of us, the god and the goddess.

Just a thought...

Mara said...

Why not indeed ?
I do think that it was once necessary to " personify" god and goddesses- but surely now in the 21st century this is no longer necessary when we have Positive v negative; on v off; yin v yang; Light v Dark ; Love v Fear ......

hmmmm will sleep on this
Thanks Rami ,